Question by james_walker004: How can I eliminate my Father from my life?
My father has a huge alcohol problem, and also a narcotics problem. He is a habitual pot smoker. I do not agree with narcotics use of any kind. I have put up with his use of pot to try to salvage what was left of our relationship. He did something that totally infuriated me last Thursday. He pulled his bong out in front of me and proceeded to try to smoke in fron of me. I am 20 years old, and about to leave for upper level college. My whole life, my father has never been there for me when I have needed him to be there. I have problems with anger and low self-esteem, because of my inept parents. My mothere, even though she is the root of my problems, has always been there for me, so I do not blame her. Concerning my father though, I hate this man, and I do not want him in my life anymore. I would like to know how I can eliminate him from my life, without him yelling and screaming. Please help me, and thank you in advance for the advice.
I really appreciate all the help that you all have given me, in spite of some of the extremely negative comments at the outset. I just wanted to clear a few things up that I did not have time for earlier. My parents are no longer together. My mom has known how bad he was for about 18 years. Also, I know that my parents are not the direct cause of my issues. However, they are indirectly the cause, in that they have handled their relationships with me very poorly. I am very much interested in the counseling program at the college I am attending. I can’t wait till school starts in the fall, and I can move on with my life. I did not phrase the original question as I would have liked. I wanted to know how I would go about eliminating him from my life. Should I just ignore him, as suggested before? Should I write him a note explaining why? Or is there another way to go about it? Once again, thank you in advance for any help.

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Answer by cho_seung_hu1
he was just trying to be cool with your uptight @$ $

stop blaming your parents for your low self-esteem, everybody is their own individual and i’d advise you to focus on school, so you can move the phuck out

Answer by SummerFalling
murder him. ill help you bury the body. seriously. murder is the way to go

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